Gaining

I know we've discussed this before, but I've had some new thoughts.

Feedees with kids usually do one of:

1. Hide their overeating from the kids;
2. Don't hide it, but have separate rules for the kids, e.g. "The doughnuts are only for Mom.";
3. Let the kids join them in overeating.

As discussed before, (3) is messed up...children are too young to make the decision to get fat or not.

I'm also starting to think (1) is not a good solution either, since it often becomes harder to hide the overeating as one gets bigger and eats more and more.

(2) may be the only way to go.

Thoughts?

I feel that it's a hard secret to keep from kids not to mention the house being full of junk food , better to not hide it but also not promote it as childhood obesity is not good.